boys are.....

whose read about this boys are stupid t-shirt thing? wow go to wikipedia and type boys are stupid and you will get it.
apart from that, i keep wondering where boys are manufactured... (there are t-shirts that say boys are manufactured in a stupid factory)



anyhow the point of this post is one... or two...
but basically since i grew up and then liked a boy and he broke my heart and another, then another and yet another, i figured prolly its my fault, i aint doing something right...and then of course the phase of 'these boys are young,' and the older guys are more mature and i was shocked that boys dint change... and someone asked in, amidst floods of tears and cake...'how do these species called men think? how in the world do they arrive at Z of an issue from B' i had no answer, i was the consoler...
then deeper revelations of the monstority of men just unveiled them selves before my very eyes when this person confided in me of this really nice charming intelligent man, totally every womans dream that raped her, and was after her two sisters while conning her. the story got worse..he denied raping her when she got preggers saying she wanted it, yet there had been evidence of forced entry, then he tried to turn her sisters against this gal and failed. fortunately for this gal, she had friends who took no crap from no stupid boy and when he came to her room on campus to confront her with his buddy, they had them scurrying out like cats and he still had the nerve to deny vehemently and insist she loved him, it was a lovers quarrel. by the way he never stopped chasing after the siters even when they outrightly beshamed him...he assured them their older sister was psycho and liked him and he had jammed her and was trying to mess his chances with the other two...the bigamous twert!



in another situation, this big boy of 45 yrs old tried to manipulate a little gal i knew who confided in me when i noticed her behaviour toward him was vicious. in brokenhearted tears, this little gal told me this man, her guardian coz her parents had travelled for a while, would tell her he would give her whatever she wants if she let him sleep with her, they lived in the same house and poor thing was scared to death, however inspite his insisting he never crossed the threshold to her room.
however when her parents returned, the little pervert told her parents the boys were good little boys and their little daughter was a pain...and the little gal bore punishments for saying no to a big ol' pervert...she had a step mom so it was fuelled with a dash of hatred! poor little gal was traumatized by boys till she was 18.
stupid boys NEVER take responsibility for their action, three stupid boys i once met told me : stupid boy 1:' i was forced to marry her, i didnt want to.'well he was a thethered goat led to the slaughter haaa! what a laugh
stupid boy 2; I donno how it happened, i swear we never had sex!what bios class did you attend
stupid boy 3: she tricked me, i dont love her, i love you' and you are still with her hm!

in yet another scenario, a friend of mine broke my heart with the revelation that she was living with this guy, a really nice cute guy with a good job, at the executive position and he liked her but apparently this gorgeous hunk has a little one year old boy and he assured her he left the mother of the girl...he even proposed to her, bended knee, plush hotel somewhere on the islands, those things, ring etc and everytime she is stressed, he gets a pass for her at work and she gets to take 'time' away and he flies her to wherever she wants .fellow wants a kid now but prim sweet girl says...'lets get married' nothing fancy, as long as we are married.
boy...is not so good now...becoz she finds out his 'dumped' galfriend is pregnant again with another baby...how stupid is that? anyway she is soooooo smitten and yet so stressed by him...i hope she leaves him...but he is everything she wants and she is willing to bendso low? too low? why do boys get girls to do that with no care, no thought? no concern for what she's going through?



then i know another boy who is is getting married...ooops, is married already to the love of his life and two months before the wedding, stupid boy meets another girl he clicks with soooo much, and they start an affair and stupid boy confides in me that he loves his wife to be and he loves girlfriend. if he could he could marry them both..oh the nerve of this bigamous greedy smudgzt! so he gets married and this girlfriend is left hanging ... i donno anymore whats happening becoz its totally preposterous!
then this one: boy loves girl but girl is the money and brains...totally ambitious, girl starts business partners with boy, gets a goooood job out of the country, leaves boy with car, business proerty etc. comes back now and again to check on boy, calls him for hours, she is totally in love. boy meanwhile back home sees another girl, starts to date her, takes her out in girlfriend's car. even asks girl friend for money for 'business' which is taking out girl B and girl B is having the time of her life thinks 'boyfriend ' is all that.he promises to marry her in september, while telling girlfriend he will marry her in july. friends and concerned people find out and tell girlfreind in outside countries whats up. of course she doesnt beleive and being fiery, she abuses the whole lot of them until she comes home unexpectedly and finds stupid boy with girl B. SHE was torn. she had paid rent for office while he was there, even bought him some stuff, lavished him so much and stupid boy playing rich gave to girl B...now some one tips relative of girl B about boyfreind that he player..but girl B would hear none of it and said she wants to marry boyfriend!you see, while she thought stupid boy was rich, stupid boy thought she was rich coz she also lived outside countries..well girlfriend was mad and hurt, threw fits and tantrums abused him infront of workmates, friends, cried in taxis,everywhere...but finally got over it and even forgave him left him with everything after all she has a gooood job out there, stupid boy got married to girl B a year agao but he now realises it was a mistake, girl B is demanding, he got no money and she cant stand him, left country to be away from him, now stupid boy , still freinds with exgirl confides in her of his probs and says 'he still loves her' but ex girl moved on with a purrrrfect hot gentleman...



now i know this man, a very distingusihed man at that , i totally respect, he aint no boy.anyway this gentle man was greatly attracted to this gal but he is happily married with three beautiful children and though he was attracted to this beautiful curvy brainy girl, he made sure he was not alone with her, with his guards or something and he met her in open places to talk business ( i am a witness, spy if you like) he decided instead of wrecking her young life, he rather lavished her with gifts, took her for lunch or breakfast NEVER dinner and discussed her future in her work place with her...girl got married and got a child and they are still friends and she says of all the greedy boys she met, she had never thought there would be a true gentleman. he never indulged her in his feelings for her , it could slip up but he was careful and they are still friends, he maintains a good distance too and i call that 'what a man should be'A CONTROLLED MAN THAT RESPECTS HIMSELF AND HIS WIFE AND THE FEELINGS OF OTHERS.
so what goes wrong in the factory where boys are manufactured? too many snails? too many frogs? whats up.
i picked up this book about men 'the power and purpose of man' and realised that there is so little; 99% of the men in the world know about who they are, their purpose and their power. no father figures? ego so they cant read to learn from another man? if men understood their power, their purpose,hey would respect themselves and women more.
men are created with authority naturally and were made to love, protect, cherish, provide and care for the woman as the weaker sex, not becoz she cant do jerk for herself, no, but becoz she is more vulnerable but men turn that around these days and the power they have been given to cloth the woman they use to strip her of her dignity....show me a man whose still a stupid boy and i will show you his wife /girlfriend totally demoralised, browkn and with hardly any glow. a woman in love with a good man, glows, has a healthy esteem and is a blessing to society. a woman that has been scorned by the stupid boys has a low self esteem, tends to be bitchy coz of pain and overly possesive of a man she gets, never totally trusting him becoz her perception bank still ha residue of the man before and the other and the other...
well inspite of it all....


women and men need each other becoze they fit together like hand and glove. now boys are dumb coz they have 'selective hearing...only to what they want.' no they are not insensitve ' are more selfish yet their original purpose is to give...check it..who puts sperms in who? it is pysically demonstrated! women are receivers so dont shout about women being dentists, we are wired to recieve,in actuall sense we give more..emotionally etc... sex is pararmount... and women emotional intimacy
then a man will break up with a woman and walk away becoz his emotions and other parts are not wired, thats why he can have sex with a girl and move on easier than a woman can, coz we get emotional. i know a girl who broke her virginity with this stupid boy who wooed her and conned her and cried on his knees for her then threw her out threatening to kill her coz she found out he was dating, had been dating for so long...she attempted suicide was rescued in time....i sat by her bed side as she mumbled about this guy for hours for days in spurts of tears and wept for her. him? he dint care she was just a stupid virgin to him.
so i ve vented my wrath on stupid boys and those that make promises only to back out , those that love you and love someone else, those that donno how to love a woman...
maybe its time stupid boys actually grew up.
but women will continue to love them coz we have a great capacity for endurance...beware when it snaps...
run stupid boy, run!